*Halloween '13

"Who's excited for candy?!"

We had a nice little Halloween this year - definitely more low key than last year in Carson.  Vera wanted to be a monarch butterfly and Edie wanted to be a dog.  Well at one point I heard her say she wanted to be a "Christmas fairy dog" and then yesterday she regretted that she didn't dress up as an egg :)  So different from Vera who has wanted to be something girly since she knew the difference!

Anyway, glad I bought Edie's costume as Vera's caused me a bit of stress. Stress that I carried for a few weeks, meaning and planning to get it done and then not really starting until the morning of.  It actually turned out better than I expected though and she was very happy which was most important to me.  I saw a similar tutorial in Real Simple, but kind of did my own thing with 4 hangers, duct tape, some black stretchy fabric I already had and the different color felts. and a lot of super glue!! Michaels also had this fuzzy felty pipe cleaner like thing that was perfect for making shoulder straps [thank you Liz for finding that!].

with our wonderful new neighbors:

I wish I'd taken some pictures of the trick or treating, especially with our little friends.  Edie and Vera were so cute, exclaiming often how heavy their bags were and "look how much candy I have!!"

I think I fixed this video:

Vera was so excited to count and sort her candy with the graph activity she got from school. She was like, Mom I'm doing Math!! I had 7 kit kats and I ate 1 so how many do I have now?

*la pediatra

I just love this picture of Edie sitting up on the table while we waited for her well visit to start.  She's such a scrappy, adorable little thing.  She didn't cry or flinch for her shot or even when they had to draw blood for testing.  Should have taken a picture with her chocolate donut afterward :)

*Edie at 3

I just want to eat Edie up right now.  I just love all her childlike mannerisms and the funny little things she says, her silliness, her imagination, how she talks about how big she is - it's so fun and so sad that it will start to slip away!!  I get mad when anyone tries to fix her funny ways of saying things, I want it to last as long as possible.

Some things that make her Edie:

- she loves animals, especially dogs and has no fear petting or getting licked, bumped around, etc.
- she will not let me put her hair up!! she promised she'd let me put it in a ponytail when she turned 3, though today she informed me that she will when she's four. She'd be so cute in little pigtails : (
- she still needs a nap! it looked like it was disappearing, but since our trip this summer she takes one almost every day - even asks for it!  It does make for a later bedtime, but I am so very thankful for the hour or two of peace and quiet.  Getting back to naps and rest has kept those delirious tantrums away!
- she is finally responding to discipline - if she does have a little fit she is normally sent to her room where she runs to her bed and cries for about 30 seconds and then usually comes out repentant.  She is definitely still a little stinker though and loves to get a rise out of Vera.
- she wakes up to get in our bed 6 out of 7 nights. Tonight I told her she could have a lollypop for breakfast if she stayed in her bed - she said she would rather sleep with mom and dad.
- she loves to help me cook and comes running to help if I'm doing anything in the kitchen. In her own little kitchen she is constantly creating something - finding little ingredients from all over the house to add to her soups or whatever. Any crayon she finds is broken in half and added to her ingredients and she takes laces out of shoes, rubber stamps from the craft stuff, tears up bits of paper... anything! I appreciate her creativity, but the messiness is a little much.
- she often quotes from the books we read throughout the day and in her play. My favorites are hearing her refer to "a pinch of salt, and a dry white wine" [Dr. Desoto], "flour, sugar, just a cup! in a bowl he mixed it up.. " and "gooey cocoa mocha silk" [Donut Chef]... can't think of the others.
- she says "lose" instead of use, "bahmembah" for remember, "suddabody" for someone/somebody, "thingah" for finger... it's fun to have her try to say a word with 'r's - she knows she can't do it.  My favorites are of course chowda and lobstah and bod [bird]
- she is incredibly silly and loves to make Vera laugh. lots of potty humor, sigh. her favorite movie quote is from Despicable Me when someone is on the moon and says, "poop" - she tells me this often.
- she talks a LOT about our baby and what it will and won't be able to do. about when it's going to come out, about whether it will have fits at bedtime, etc.

I noted down her bedtime prayer from her 3rd birthday. Usually they go, "Thank you that we had a great time, and that we had a good time... and that we had a good time..." This was a little longer:

Dear Jesus, thank you that we had a good time, and that we had a great time at my birthday party. and thank you that my friends were SO happy to go to my birthday party. and thank you that puppy lives in my heart and thank you that my mom's baby is healfy. Amen!

*calabazas

We went with some good friends to a pick-your-own berry farm/pumpkin patch today.  It was such a beautiful, clear, warm day - surprising after some of the weather we had this weekend. Anyway, we had a great time and have a couple pumpkins to carve and some Fall table decorations.

getting a popcorn tutorial (Vera's friend doesn't like loud noises :)

*Edie's 3rd birthday party

Yesterday Edie turned 3! She has been talking and talking and talking about when she'd be 3, and I don't think she was disappointed: pure joy all day long.  I wasn't sure exactly what we would do for the party, but everything came together the two days before - I work better that way anyway.  It was a really fun party and I think all the kids had a great time.  I even heard one 6 year old say it was the funnest birthday party ever! That sounds successful to me :)

Helping me make cupcakes [from a box, glad I wasn't ambitious here]:

Vera was excited to help decorate too - I saw her even straightening all the chairs outside on her own :)

I found the little crown I made for her 1st birthday.  She wore it just long enough to take a picture, though not a decent one...

Here's where I said, no! show me a princessy smile:

I just found these from her 1st birthday party - so cute and tiny!  I'm all sad now missing Utah :(

Everyone played well in the backyard.  After the cupcakes I had them play one little game where they wore little ribbon "tails" out their pants and ran around trying to capture each other's. It was hilarious and Edie was deliriously happy.

I wanted to do some sort of messy cooking-like activity because that is what Edie loves.  I bought mini chocolate chips, mini marshmallows, sprinkles, gummi starts and icing pens for them to decorate. I put one drop of food coloring with their frosting so they could mix it up - everyone thought this was incredibly fun!!  I really wish I'd taken pictures of their cupcakes, they turned out so cute.

*youtube catch-up

I took so many videos of little Vera and have felt badly that Edie doesn't have very many up. I recently finally downloaded a whole bunch from our camera and uploaded them onto youtube. They aren't super exciting, but just capture her cute little self in this toddler/preschool stage. Currently I am just in love with her chattering - I just want to eat her up all day long. She talks a lot about the baby and a lot about how big she is - I mean she is going to be 3 in a little over a week!!

This was a whole year ago when she turned 2 and I turned 33:

 

I did this little interview after a friend posted a similar thing on facebook, a compilation of kids interviewed about Valentine's day.  I tried with Vera too, but she didn't really want to talk at the time.  Edie was pretty funny... this is her at about 2 and 4 months:

 

This was taken sometime last November or December in Carson City when she had just turned 2.  So cute :)

 

Just a random one of me trying to get her to talk about the baby. She had probably just been super adorable and funny about it and I tried to recreate on video. We all know that doesn't always work :)

 

*oatmeal bread

I have made bread twice now in our new house. The kitchen is so nice and big and well-lit that it is really so much fun to be in there cooking and baking. I am so happy with it!! Anyway, I made my mom's oatmeal bread today and it turned out really well.  This is the bread that I grew up eating - my mom made about nine loaves of it weekly! I think she did it on a specific day, like the Ingall's "Bake on Mondays." I even wrote about it here.  I would love to get into that rhythm myself ... we'll see.  

Here is the recipe. It's kind of loose, my mom just knows what to add when and how to adjust here and there. I'm not that good, but here's what I did to make two smallish loaves. This is what fits into my dinky kitchen aid without spilling over.

2.25 tsp yeast
2 cups boiling water
1.5 cups rolled oats
~4 cups flour (this time I used 3 white, 1 white whole wheat)
scant 1/2 tsp sugar
1 T salt
2 T oil or softened butter (I used butter)
1/4 cup molasses or honey (I used honey this time)

-Pour the boiling water over the oats and let it sit until cool [if it's too hot in later steps you kill the yeast!]
-I poured off about half a cup of the oatmeal water into a glass measuring cup, let it cool to tepid and then added the yeast and sugar, let the yeast 'proof' or bubble.
-Add oatmeal and salt and yeast mixture to mixer.  Using the dough hook, start on low to combine then and add half the flour.
-Add the honey/molasses and the oil/butter while continuing to mix.
-Add the rest of the flour, scraping the sides between each cup.  Continue to stir on setting 2-3 for a minute or so. If the dough looks really sticky add a little more flour, maybe 1/2 cup. It's supposed to clean the sides of the bowl on its own.
-After the mixer kneads for about 3 minutes [I think my mom said it's possible to over mix in the kitchen aid], take out of the bowl and knead a few times on a floured board or countertop.
-Butter or oil the mixer or another bowl and put the dough back in and cover with a plate until it doubles in size.  Punch it down and then divide into two little loaves. Put them in greased loaf pans and let rise again [I think I hurried the two risings and my bread was a little too dense]
-Bake at 375 for 40-50 min [that's what her recipe says, but it seems to be a little too hot..] until the bread sounds hollow when you tap it. Turn out onto baking racks to cool.

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*el backyard

I forgot how to say yard in Spanish.... maybe they say el parque? Anyway I love ours!!! The girls don't play back there often unless we have friends over.  To be honest, I can kind of understand why - I think if I was little I would be imagining a tiger crouching in the grass :)

Edie is more likely to be out there on her own - she loves the little house [left by previous owners!] and is just loving having a yard to make mud creations in.

*seis años

::: first day of first grade :::

It's so crazy to look back on photos and videos and realize how much Vera's grown and changed.  I feel like I used to document little snapshots of her more often, and would like to get back into it.  Sooo... at 6 years, Vera:

- is still in the beginning stages of reading. She gets frustrated very quickly with it and doesn't seem to have her usual determination when it comes to working hard to learn.  I try to show her how far she's already come and how easy those little 3 letter words are now, but I think she is just impatient with it. She still very much enjoys being read to and looking through her books, so that's good.  Favorite books at the moment are Too Many Pumpkins, The Donut Chef, The Velveteen Rabbit, One Morning in Maine ...  I'll think of more.

- is still very creative and loves to think up little projects and crafts on her own. I can't find it at the moment, but she made Edie an adorable little book called "Animals are cyoot", and drew a different animal on each page with "Bunnys are cyoot", etc. She loves making cards for her friends and family and has a little 'signature' thing she does on the back of each one with their name framed in a little heart curlicue. I love to think what her creativity and talent will look like when she's older. On the other hand, she seems to hold herself back a lot because she wants a drawing to be "perfect" and gets easily upset if she thinks it isn't, then she will just refuse to continue :/

- in other things, she shows a lot of determination to perfect a skill. For a while she wanted to go to the playground every day to practice monkey bars, and she still wants Ben to sit and score her cartwheels for her.

- is still very much a rule follower.  She even told me on a ride at Disneyland that I was supposed to keep my hands in the boat :)  She also really fights riding her scooter or bike to school with me because last year they were told not to [a whole 'nother story.. did I write about that ever?]

- is usually a very good big sister. They don't get along as dreamily as they did before Edie hit ~1.5, but they play often and laugh a lot together. Frankly, Edie is still quite the stinker and I am proud of Vera for the amount of patience she shows!! She doesn't seem to mind her tagging along with friends, although sometimes I know she and the friend will play spy and pretend to 'lose' Edie, who thankfully is oblivious.

- is very very loving and tells me and Ben often that she loves us so much. I have so many little notes and cards from her, I don't know what to do with them all!

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Her party was really fun ... and really big. I didn't know how to cut it down to a few friends, so I invited everyone!! and their siblings and moms too!  It was quite stressful having just moved in, but I'm glad we did it.  One thing I wish I'd taken a picture of was the little sea scape snow globes we made - they turned out really cute! Rosie made similar ones with the girls in CA and so we made them too [Vera wanted a mermaid theme].

Here they are searching for little paper fish that they turned in for skittles.  I hid an Ariel and a King Triton for a bigger prize. My mom had reminded me how much we loved treasure hunts when we were little!!

mermaid piñata

My great-granny Mae's cupcakes were well-liked:

Some of her creations.. a little laptop she made for Edie - which Edie thoroughly loved!

drawn in church - with no prompting :)

I love this Toca Boca  game - she designed this little dress using a picture I took at Red Butte gardens, I thought it was really cute!

*dulce Vera

This was several weeks ago, but something I wanted to remember. I had taken both girls along to watch my new little charge, and Edie for some unexplainable reason had 3 massive fits throughout the day. Incoherent, delirious - NOTHIng I could do but wait [if you think you have advice for me, it probably would not have worked, but thanks ;)]. Vera was such a trooper and so helpful. She even went in to order the ice cream for herself and Stella while I waited outside with screaming Edie. Another fit occurred as we walked to the train station and then waited for about 45 minutes for her to calm down - Vera just played at the playground and was so patient. Later, at home, she disappeared for a while and then brought me this sweet, creative card because she knew I'd had a hard day. She is really such a caring, thoughtful and creative little girl and things like this just make my heart swell ♥

On another note, Edie is doing really well and we haven't seen one of these tantrums since that awful day. I think it all had to do with our long vacation and the inconsistency and accumulated lack of sleep. Thankfully we are getting into a nice routine with good food and good rest. She is even currently in the easiest nap stage of her entire life!! Such a treat and a blessing for me :)